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writes:Okay, I have this boyfriend.. I am completely in love with him. We have done stuff, sexually. But both of our parents don't trust us alone together, we need alone time. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 November 2010):
 Now, I'm not trying to lecture you but since you have done sexual activities and wishing to be alone..then I suggest you get on a form of birth control such as the Pill, the shot, patch, and a vaginal insert plus your boyfriend needs to be using condoms every time during intercourse. Lecture over.
How to be alone with your boyfriend, well if one of you has a license and a car, then you can leave and go to the movies, book store, or a park to be alone. Now if your parents bought your car, they have the right to take away your keys so you're rather stuck. Other than lying and saying you're going to a friend's house when you're really going to his house because his parents aren't home. In which I don't recommend because you will get caught. You're pretty much stuck to being supervised by your parents until you're of legal age or move out. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): it sounds like they're smart not to trust you if you've already had sex! maybe you should just try obeying your parents and not having sex, cause the only way they'll trust you is if you show trustworthyness
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): well there must be a reason your parents don't trust you together alone. My parents were the same way about my boyfriend and i. But sneaking around behind your parents back will only make it worse, before too long you will get caught and they will trust you even less. Try to reason with your parents. Or i always went to parties with my boyfriend and snuck out a little bit early for some alone time. You'll figure it out, just be smart about it.
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