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Hey what's the deal?

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Question - (1 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 November 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

he says he doesnt want to be with me anymore ever again and that he has let go of all his feelings for me. and that he isnt in love with me and probably never will be again.

when i got kicked out of my house he opened his doors for me (i know he still cares for me) so i have been staying with him for about 2 months now.

anyways i guess my question is:

if he doesnt want to be my BF anymore why is is so concerned with where i am at and why is he obsessed with looking through my phone? he also figured out my facebook password and went through my entire account. he used to do this when we were dating and stopped after we broke up.

however now hes doing it a lot. i caught him looking thru my fone while i was showering and he was 'shaving' i said what are you doing (i really dont care if he snoops cuz i dont have anything to hide anyways )

he said he was just looking thru the pix cuz he wants to get a phone like mine... ummm LIAR

anyways why is he doing this if he INSISTS we will never have again what we had before?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010):

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I'm interested in what other people have to say as well... although i've only been with him for a little over a year it was like a slap in the face. we spent my birthday together and then 2 weeks later it was his birthday and he dropped that ' i wanna be alone line' on me. :T

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A female reader, Nouvelle32 United States +, writes (2 November 2010):

I don't know... My ex did the same.. He came over and we talked and had sex and then I went to sleep and I had gotten a text message that I hadn't read yet and he opened it and then woke me up to hand me my phone, so I knew he had looked through it. He's the one who left me, so I don't know why he would do that. I'm interested to hear what other ppl. have to say though. He's gone now, got another girlfriend and said he never wants to see me again. He's a dick... can't believe I never really knew him after 2 years of sleeping next to him in the bed. Never saw it coming.

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