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writes: Hi so ive asked questions in the past week about my LDR boyfriend and i but this has also been bugging me.When he said smoked cigars i thought he actually did, but he smokes cigarettes too. Cigars i dont mind, cigarettes i mind. And i had told him i didnt mind him smoking just not around me if we met up.I didnt know he smoked cigarettes til about a month ago and i dont like, enough as it is he's done stuff in his past he uberly regrets and hates that i see him differently cause he doesnt see how i see. lol but whatever i love him anyway.I dont want to ask him to just quit cold turkey cause he likes that i havent asked and im not like his past GFs, asking him to smoke weed or have sex or go to raves and that crap. He's better then that, but i feel like im the "bad guy" asking him to quit...You think maybe i should let him do it for now and then when we finially meet ask him not too? I dont know, im confused.Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI found he's been smoking since 9th grade...should i at least ask him to quit when we move in?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's 17 and im going to be 16. I want to stay with him he's been my best friend half my life and now my boyfriend id hate to lose him.
i can tolerate people smoking i just cant tolerate the smell and knowing that my boyfriend does. I feel absolutely horrible for even wanting him to quit.
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