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Please help me get over him!

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Question - (1 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I like this boy even though he's in a relationship. I've only met him once but I completly fell for him. I was looking on his wAll on facebook and he's saying "best girlfriend ever" "couldn't ask for a better gf" "I love my girlfriend" then people are telling him they think them two will get married. That right there broke my heart. I'm crying right now. Please pleAse please help me get over him! I'm 13 by the way. I bet they won't get married and don't say it's just a boy get over him stuff like that.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 November 2010):

TasteofIndia agony auntI won't say "he's just a boy", but I will say that you're just going to have to start getting over him. By that, I mean start distancing yourself from him. The less you concentrate on him and his Facebook page, the more your heart will relax and be open to other available guys. If he is in a relationship and pretty happy there, he's probably not going to be getting out of it any time soon! So the more time you devote to loving him, the more time you're wasting.

Start spending more time with your friends, going out, meeting new people and doing things. The more things you do to distract yourself, the better! Time will heal your heart. Good luck, sweet thing!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (1 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntOk hun you might think that you love him but you have only met him the once and he is in a relationship so there is no point acting on your crush. At your age you will get many crushes it makes us who we are and then as we grow up we learn how to deal with it and it prepares us for getting our heart broken later in life. You just need to give it some time. Stop looking at his facebook page as this is just going to upset you even more you need to distance yourself go out with friends and enjoy yourself and believe me in time you will be feeling much better.

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