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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi everyone. i have a little problem not too serious or anything. i'll just give you the short version so that i won't bore whoever is reading this. there is this one guy that i really can't get out of my head and believe me i've tried. i've liked him for a really long time. lots of awkward moments with this one. he's basically the guy i shouldn't like but i'm drawn to like a magnet kind of thing. I once let him know how i felt about him, not face to face cos i'm really a shy girl but for some reason he never told me if he felt anything or not. a really loose end i call it. i only told him because someone who knows him well and isn't immature and verry trustworthy told me that he liked me... but i just left it at that. i just thought that if he had any type of feelings towards me he just might step up and tell me if i went first and just put it out there.i was left feeling really stupid and i still don't know how he see's me. it happened just over a year ago and for some reason i just still have some kind of feelings towards him and i don't know if i'll ever stop liking him and I don't think that this is normal. i have such mixed emotions about him. i've just tried to lock them all up but it dosen't always work. i just want your honest advice about this please. should i just hide how I feel as usual?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): Most guys dont really communicate their feelings as much as girls so its not that strange that he didn't tell you if he liked you.
In my opinion, the best thing to do is take a step back and really think about it, do you truly like him? If you do then I think the best thing to do would probably be to ask him, does he like you? If you're not good friends with him already try and get closer to him so he would be more comfortable with talking to you.
I hope this helps, I have been through something similar and its not nice.
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