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female
age
30-35,
*bdd
writes:i dont know when to stop wanting this. Me and my ex broke up due to issues with me and me bettering myself we both still love each other. But i pushed him to his limit i know i have to give him time to hisself. But what should my limits be we dont have sex or anything but talking wise I dont want to give him to much to think hes still in the relationship but enough so that he wants something back out of it. Everything has gotten so awkward that we can barely hold conversations. I dont know what not to say. Also, I have hope we will get together, but him on the other hand hes like he just wants to be alone basically because he was so unhappy because of all the arguing started by me. Now I am reading up on stuff, trust me i noticed this problem before we broke up but it was hard to fix while in the relationship and i was scared to call it off. Im starting counseling next week just to help out cause i want it (problems: such as insecurity, trust problems, jealousy etc.. along that line) all gone. Not just for us but for me as well. I do see this relationship working out, but not rushing. I just want that attention back again.. so what should I do and how should we hold conversations.?
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reader, Corys girl +, writes (1 November 2010):
i know what you mean. i have been with a different guy other then my ex for almost 5 months now and i still think about bryan and what could have happened if we hadnt broke up
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Well i think to begin with you need to put some distance between you and your ex so that he can clear his head and so that you can get the help that you need, this means no talking for a while, contact him and tell him you are seeking help and you are going to give him some space until you get the help that you need tell him that you want to change for the better and want to get back with him after your counselling and once you have sorted out your issues and you hope that he waits for you because you love him and want to make things better.
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