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writes:What can or should I do; (heartbroken)? On Aug.26, 2010,I picked up my fiance from OKC Airport;she just arrived from Republica Dominicana, where she lives. Met her on the internet about a month before. We married on Sept.01, 2010,deepest love I've been in, I'm 72,have had one prior marriage, over 400 lifetime girlfriends,not trying to brag,I'm ashamed. Our love was always bonded by her Dios, and from my side of things, it was great. Told a close friend of mine that this lady knows how to make love like a man.She could cook and clean the best. But about 4 weeks into the marriage,she told me her pension from being a teacher had stopped and the only way to get it started again was for her to appear in person in the Dominican Republic.She called me a jerk before she left, but I took her to OKC Airport,off she went.She seemed kinda distant that morning, just a small kiss, and on this Oct.21,2010; i never heard from her until Oct.29,2010.Told her she was breaking my heart,why did you do this? I invited her to Facebook;she was already on there, as a male teacher in Santiago, D.R. She/he now tells me she is not coming back because I'm too changeable.She/he is 60.For all intents and purposes she is a female through and through.What do I do next. Alone and confused. ezcowboy1
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reader, ezcowboy1 +, writes (2 November 2010):
ezcowboy1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBoth of these answers were on point: Try to fill in what they asked me: First about naked; Angel is what I called her;didn't find out she had been a man until after she left;ran into a person like this before but you could tell by her body parts,someone did a bad job,but Angel must have had morphism,because she was still wet at 60 and with stimulation got wetter.We were naked every day and night most nearly,actual intercourse usually 2 to 3 times a day;Angel was very aggressive;first woman who ever completely satisfied me;I was drained,she said her appetite came from her love for me.I'm not mad,she was a very sweet woman thru and thru.She like dropped me after having an affair of the heart, she is a beautiful woman, sincerely,like 45yrs.I fell in love with her very deeply,now I hurt,feel like a dead man walking. But heres my concern,if she scammed,will she in D.R.They have a Constitution and same-sex marrige is outlawed and same-sex co-habitation requires regestration with Govt.Its also outlawed in Oklahoma of course, want her back very much,got compliments on her being pretty,looks 50ish,but don't want to be punished by D.R.or Oklahoma.The jerk loves her.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (1 November 2010):
 I'm sorry, but I think I need to just point out the obvious here. Let me just see if I have all of this straight - You met a "woman" on the internet. After 1 month you met "her", but by then she was already your fiancee? That would mean in that 1 month you talked to her online you asked "her" to marry you? Did you have anything else to go on besides a picture?
Now, one thing I don't understand is why "she" called you a jerk before she left. Did you give her any trouble for leaving?
Now, my next question (while possibly inappropriate) is - did you see "her" naked at all?
It sounds like "she's" scamming you for some reason. Money, possibly? Citizenship?
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reader, Natalie:)  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 This question is pretty hard to decipher. I guess what you are trying to say is you are upset that he/she has left you? And you wonder why this has happened? If she is hoping back from counrtry to country and being wierd with you then she/he is probably keeping secrets. Don't take it personally I think you may have met someone on the Internet who has not shown their real personality or is scared of commitment
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