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writes:This may be easier to understand if you read my previous question.The same guy who I have been interested in and who showed interest in me - things have been so slow, it's non - existant. What would I like to happen is for him to get in touch and tell me how he feels and for us to start a relationship, as we are both ready to do so. However, right now he just isn't getting in touch. He is busy I know, but he does tweet on Twitter so why can't he talk to me? I have been making the first effort to talk so many times lately. I've stopped and will wait for him. But it's the wait that kills, because I feel he will never get in touch or ask to meet up again for a day out.My ex is also trying to get me back. Whenever I am with my ex, I think about the new guy. Why is this? I feel as if I should take my ex back because I'm not sure if this new guy will come round soon, however he might do. My ex loves me, and he likes me but isn't showing it anymore. I don't want to lead on my ex, I want us to be friends.My new love interest is giving me mixed signals and my ex is pressurising me by being emotional all the time. What do I do?
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reader, evildrspock  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 You could confront him. Tell him you're interested, get it out in the open, and stop waiting for him. If he's that important to you that you can't stop worrying about it, sounds like it's at least worth the risk.
Guys don't always have to make the first move, when it comes to love. They can also be completely oblivious, and need some more-than-obvious-to-girls nudges in the right direction.
I think a lot of guys may miss "signs" and "signals" from girls who think they're clear messages, because the guy is too caught up & worried about if the girl feels the same way as he. Seriously, I did that.
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