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writes:Hey I'm almost 15 and my beautiful girlfriend is 14 we haven't had any kind of sexual contact but I really want to and I think she does to how can I tell? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks this helps alot!
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reader, SceneXaddicted +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Well, I wouldn't recommend jumping into sex. If you two have been dating for a year or so, its not a big deal. If you have been dating for less, maybe you should start with Foreplay. Just ask her. Its not that difficult. If your relationship is developed enough to have sex, you should have a mature enough relationship to talk about sex and talk about the consequences of what ifs, like what if she got pregnant. Take it slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Basically put, if you aren't confident enough with her to actually ask her and have a talk about sex, then you aren't ready to have sex either. The only way to find out is to actually sit her down and ASK her. Watch out for laws about age in your country, what will happen/could happen if someone found out. Also be prepared! Things will be so much easier if you read up on sex, what goes where, what is expected, what types of STD's there's out there and so on. Being prepared makes you more confident, makes your girlfriend more confident, and can save you from a lot of worries.PS. Always use a condom, and follow the instructions closely. Maybe practice with your girlfriend how to put it on etc. before even getting as close as having intercourse. If you and your girlfriend are comfortable enough with each other to do this, then maybe you are both ready. Be patient and take it one step at a time!
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