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writes:My ex is acting really weird. he dumped me and when I told him "fine, leave me alone then" he wanted to speak, stupid as I was I gave him a chance to speak only to have him ignore me. I have asked him three times now to leave me alone, it hurts a lot even as it is, but he continues to pop up in my life insulting me and hurting me even more. Why is he acting like this? I have accepted that he doesn't want me, even though it hurts, and I only ask him to leave me alone in return to have a chance of moving on and he won't let mePlease help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
He's acting this way because you're responding. He gets a kick knowing that you're in pain. Instead of asking him to leave you alone, just block him, delete his numbers and never respond. He clearly has issues, and you can do better. Completely ignore him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): have you considered that he still likes you?
His hate for himself dumping you in the first place could be wrongly reflecting back on you because his being stubborn: he feels he would be vulnerable if he asked you back out or "confessed" his real feelings yet he doesnt want to leave you alone because... even if its bad contact, at least its a form of contact with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): He still wants you but wants to be the centre of attension, guys dont like loosing, giving up is fine, loosing is a BIG no no, the fact you accepted it & wanted to be left alone shows whos the mature one & it probably annoys him that your not appearing bothered, my advise is to change your number or something.
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