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*ixieGwen
writes:My ex and I hung out recently. He's been M.I.A. for months due to personal/financial probs.He contacted me,he was in the area - We talked and flirted for hours in the car.He talked bout hating the dating process,wants companionship,someone beside him nightly etc (repeated himself a cpl times) and yet didnt try anything on me - he knows I dont make moves(seemed he was tryin to keep distance) but the chemistry was there.He mentioned he saw me on the dating site (that we met off of) and that was that..didnt elaborate - very random.He told me about his crappy dating experience he had w/ a girl after me.Normally I hug him when I see him and I didnt bother this time.Our hangout went incredibly well..I think and he said he had fun - as did I.A wk later I invited him out for coffee.He replied w/ a txt saying hes busy w/ shows and things of that nature.I got annoyed w/ the reply cos in person he seemed stoked to see me and through txt he seemed like hes TOO busy for me or tryin to be mr too cool for school.(I know txt is easy to read into).I told him if he doesnt wanna be friends - lemme know.its cool..I found out he thought that I was copping an attitude in my last msg (the friends thing).I've noticed that after our breakup he reads into everything I say and do - more towards the negative side.I feel he's been on the fence bout me since we broke up 6 mo ago (talked bout possibly gettin back together long time ago, then took it back, then wants to be friends but then changes his mind).I felt like he was hinting to maybe..date (when I last saw him).Why Does He Always Think I'm Being Negative Or Read Into Everything?(We broke up cos he wasnt feeling it anymore although I didnt believe that considering he wanted to be w/ me everyday/called me nonstop.I was bout to go NY for 2 wks and hes been cheated on in every relationship cept ours..so I think he anticipated bad stuff and sabotaged our relationship.)
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reader, PixieGwen +, writes (18 January 2010):
PixieGwen is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah I was just curious why he's the way he is...w the negativity and all.its not like we're dating.I'm seeing others. And he's been cheated ON...he wasn't the cheater.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
To be honest, it seems to me that this guy has some serious issues he needs to address before he's worthy of any woman. He cheated in every relationship except yours, which says that at some point he would have done it to you. He has issues he needs to sort out. Cut contact and move on.
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