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female
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anonymous
writes:Hi,Last summer, I was about to get married but we broke up 15 days before the wedding. After 2 months, my ex-boyfriend wanted to talk to me after 6 years. At first, we were just walking and talking for a month. We used to talk about everything especially the cancelled wedding. After that I didn't see him for 2 months and called him. We met at a cafe. He kept asking me about my ex-fiancee, if i still feel anything for him. I said no, and he said he wants a relationship with me and I said yes. 3 weeks ago, I invited him for a dinner. He kept talking about my good qualities, how bad my ex-fiancee treated me. After dinner, we had sex. The strange thing is, he proposed to me during sex. He kept on asking "Marry me, marry me". I was shocked and I said " I don't know". He kept on asking and told me "lets make a baby". I said "I won't say the things you want from me". Frankly, I was in shock. He never was a man who cuddles and show emotions. 6 years ago, after we separated, he used to text me once a year, wanted to see me but i always said no. I was with someone else.But after all these years, the first night as a couple, he proposes. The weird thing is, we talked on the phone after that night. But we never met again! The last phone call was also strange. He treats me like we are lovers but I can't see him for 3 weeks! I told him this and he said he didn't want us to be a highly dependent couple. And kept on asking about my ex-fiancee, because at that time my ex-fiancee was calling me and wanted me back again. I told both that I don't want to reunite with him.My mind is messed up. What does this man want? He proposes, askes questions about my ex-fiancee, and stops calling me! What does he want? I called and emailed him last week but no response....I really want to get back together with him. But as you see...he became distant again.
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reader, I'm here for you  +, writes (21 February 2013):
Ask him later on about whether or not it was just n the spur of the moment or whether he was actually serious. f he was then, well either accept or deny. If not then smack him in the face and walk off!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Thanks for the replies. He might have used me unfortunately but why did he run after me for months? And asked all those questions....just for a night of good sex?
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Take it as a compliment that he enjoyed it so much he felt at that moment that you were the one. However, dont take him seriously unless he proposes while you are fully clothed :-)
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