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writes:So, I went out with this girl for maybe 3 weeks. A the end of the three weeks, she dropped me for occasionally saying stupid (not mean, just stupid) things, and not calling her on a holiday. I tried to get her back for maybe a week then about a week later she said she wanted to come over... Then that night I went out and hooked up with one of her friends (a jerk thing to do I admit it). A few days later, I find out that her friend (who I hooked up with) and her hatched a plan after that to fuck with my head, (make me like the second girl a lot then drop me)... Does this seem a little much to any girls out there? I probably should mention this as it may explain a bit: I'm 22 and have never kissed a girl previous to this, but recently lost a TON of weight, got in really good shape, and I have a great, prestigious job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): What does your looks and job have to do with anything?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 January 2010):
Yes, it happens. Even if girls are supposed to be made of sugar and spice and everything nice...we can be quite evil. I think it depends a lot on the maturity level of the girl and what it is you did. If you screw over a girl that's on the immature side (or psychotic side), she'll usually do things to get you back to make your life a living hell temporarily. However, the more mature and probably less psychotic ones will figure that you're just some dude, it's your loss, you're not worth her time, you sucked in bed anyway, and move on with her life.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Their behaviour is not common, but it does happen. THey were nasty and spiteful. Put it behind you as a lesson learnt the hard way, and get on with your life without allowing this month or so of it impact too greatly.
Good luck, just remember, we all stuff up occassionally, that's what makes us human.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Well, to be fair you did go with her friend, so I can understand why she's hurt. However, if they're out for revenge, then maybe avoid them because it's shown they're both a little bit unstable. In the future, don't act like that with women. But avoid these two
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reader, Ganymedes +, writes (18 January 2010):
Sounds to me like she's a petty, superficial person. Granted, it probably wasn't a good idea to hook up with her friend in any case. Sounds like you don't have a whole lot of experience and you will need to date quite a few people before you know for sure what you want out of a partner. Forget about her and move on, buddy.
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