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*damo89
writes:Hi all i need some help here,A couple of months ago i started a new job on a horse stud, my boss had warned me about the next door neighour(farming properties) and said that he was a brat and that he was not a nice person,we had a big bushfire come through the valley and me my boss and the neighbour had to battle it together. This neighbour Johno is only 19 and im 20 came up and introduced himself and we got talking, eventually after a couple of weeks we were riding horses having a few beers and just chilling when he started telling me about his dad.(his dad passed away on the 20th of August 2009) And this poor bloke i thought he has no one and is lonely he was, he told me so himself so over the next few weeks him and i hung out a bit more and he met my parents when they came to visit and then he came out to mum and dads farm a few times with me to go shooting.Then mum asks him to come out for christmas as he was all alone and so he did, christmas came and went and he starts staying over at my place and i dont mind cos he has no one, we hang out do everything together he even tries to help me hook up in the female department.But when he goes away somewhere or is going out to look for a girl or is busy i start to feel lonely and unwanted and sort of jealous i think god he can get girls at the drop of a hat but why cant i, he tries to get me to come out of my shell, but im just shy, so when he goes out or goes away i feel lonely and jealous because i need people around me, he tries his best to help me with everything. i had an operation and he drove me everywhere, my car broke down, he drove me everywhere, he helps me with farm work and doesnt expect anything in turn..... so am i obsessed? im the one who misses him when he goes out or goes away and yeah he misses me too but am i Obsessed???
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reader, tdamo89 +, writes (20 January 2010):
tdamo89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk new update guys well him and I went to town today to do some work oriented shopping and he sees one of his chick friends anyways she tells him her shower is playing up (yeah right) the next thing I know they are gone for 3 hours an he comes back all clean and shaved and what nit with a spring in his step well I did ask anything and he said to me oh mate u should have seen her shower drains were feral anyways we get home about an hour and he goes to me oh we don't need to go away now this weekend I had a root earlier so u will be fine for another 2 weeks and now I'm sitting here upset and angry with him trying to get into my room and I don't know what to do anymore
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reader, tdamo89 +, writes (19 January 2010):
tdamo89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou ang I just need courage I guess him and i had a big chat today
and he now understands how I feel but I'm just worried I'm going to make a fool of myself in front of him ....
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (19 January 2010):
In that case maybe you are just beginning to depend on him too much. Be careful because you can ruin your friendship if he starts to feel your dependency. My suggestion is ask him to hook you up with one of the friends of the girl he goes to see. Then you can hit the town together and maybe you won't feel so lonely. Take the first step and because you will be in a group, you won't have the pressure of being alone with her for the first couple of hours.
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reader, tdamo89 +, writes (19 January 2010):
tdamo89 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Angzw,No i havent ever had those sort of feelings for him, EVER he is just a mate and no im not homosexual i just get jealous of him when he seems to do the right things and im still stuck in a hole...
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reader, Angzw +, writes (18 January 2010):
Before you go all 'Brokeback Mountain' on us, can you explain if you have feelings for him or are attracted to him in any way? Don't have a kneejerk reaction to this question; seriously ask yourself some honest questions about your sexual orientation. Perhaps you are attracted to him in some way???
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