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writes:I wrote about that my husband and me want to invite a couple of men join in and cum on my face. Am I a slut even if my husband agrees to this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): Hmmm, if you have to ask you probably should not be doing this.
Once you introduce other people into the sexuality of your relationship, things change. And do you know the HIV status of the two fella's? IMO it's enough to try to track the STD status of two people, introducing others increases your risks.
I doubt they will think too highly of you, no more than YOU think of yourself CONSIDERING IT!
And 'KNOW THIS' they'll go on their way to find someone else to do this rather you DO OR DON'T.
So don't feel 'pressured' by ANYONE to do what you apparently don't feel comfortable doing.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (22 January 2010):
 Slut should not even be in your vocabulary.
Your sex life is YOUR life. Live it for yourself, not for other people, and DON'T let others live it for you!
You are doing something fun that you enjoy.
-IHateWomanBeaters
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Maybe you are. But...if the two of you are happy with it, then so what?
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 First thing is that your desire to have cum in your face is not your truly conceived desire. There is no logic in such desire, but it is influenced from porn films.
The term 'slut' you used here, and wanted to know its true meaning, then it is orthodox minded thinkers who use this terms for 'female' who show interest in sex, who feel and even dare to express their feeling in terms of pleasure is 'slut'. Later this terms is actualized by porn film maker, by showing 'female' how horny they are?
The orthodox term is used for religious minded people, who think that female should remain silent in bed, and allow their men to do anything they want in intercourse, just to have baby, and should not response. As a result, humanity remain in total ignorance about female sexuality. For centuries it is believed that female cannot enjoy sex. She even do not want sex, it is just men wanted to do to full fill his social duty. It is male's duty to give children to-the society.
So, slut is simply derogatory terms. but as a concept it is floating concept, not matched with reality of female sexuality. Now, with the development of philosophy and psychology it is known that female enjoy sex, and want all thing worthy of wanting...but this ejaculation on face is not worthy of wanting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): "First, slut is not necessarily a bad word, it can be thought of as a compliment! If you and your boy friend are enjoying what you do, GO FOR IT! Frankly, I envy your boyfriend for having such a delicious, wild, wonderful lover!"
That's right. A very promiscuous man or woman can be called a slut in a derogatory way. A woman can also affectionately or complementary be called a slut by her partner for being especially good and exciting in bed or dressing in a sexy or slutty way for him.
"Why do you want such a thing,what is so humiliating?"
Many men and women totally agree with that, while others do it often and find it exciting. The reason that she wants it is because she finds it exciting instead of humiliating. There is nothing wrong with either opinion. It depends on the person or couple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): First, slut is not necessarily a bad word, it can be thought of as a compliment! If you and your boy friend are enjoying what you do, GO FOR IT! Frankly, I envy your boyfriend for having such a delicious, wild, wonderful lover!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Hmmm... That one does not sound right! I think it is very sick. You should not do that,you will regret it. Why do you want such a thing,what is so humiliating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): "Do you think you'll consider yourself a slut? That's the question. At the end of the day its your conscience that's got to be clear."
I agree, but you also have to include the feelings of your husband. When in a marriage, it is not only about me. It is about us. Make sure that neither one of you will think of you as slutty. You are the ones who matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): So as not to repeat, I totally agree with what Gina said. To add to that, I would only consider you a slut if you did this with a group of men while cheating on your husband. If it is something that both you and your husband agree on and think you will be OK with then you are neither cheating nor a slut. However, make sure that you think this out very carefully.
By the way, the fantasy of that is very exciting, but I'm not sure that I would really want to watch other guys cumming on my wife's face.
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reader, boo22  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Do you think you'll consider yourself a slut? That's the question. At the end of the day its your conscience that's got to be clear.
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reader, Roadster73 +, writes (18 January 2010):
 What you do behind closed doors is your business.. Slut is a nasty word & as caring guy wrote normally only said by bitter men (or women) just be careful and make sure u both know what your letting yourselfs in for cause fantasy and real life are so different, and once done you can't go back
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2010):
No, of course not. Slut is generally a term used by bitter men who have problems letting go, or as an easy insult. You'e not a slut.
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