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writes:last weekend me and some friends went to a local lounge and started having a few drinks.... Except for me, I finished a bottle of spirit (I know this because of the bill I later found in my pocket....)I actually should have had alcohol poisoning, I really wish I had one...However the next morning I wake up next to a 50-55 year old woman!... I dont even know what happend, how I got there... etc.. The place was a town 30 miles away from the lounge...So now I'm constantly feeling so dirty and disgusted with my self. I feel so ashamed, I'm not even of legal drinking age yet, but I apparently had sex with a woman who is 50 something!!!!Please people, give me some tips on how to over come this, I can't even talk to my friends, I didn't leave the house for like 4 or 5 days now. Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (24 January 2010):
 Sometimes we all do really silly things when we are drunk - I know this from experience.
I think the only thing you can do is just be thankful that you weren't with a 55 yr old man, chained to a bedpost, in a different country by the time you woke up!!
Don't feel dirty, or ashamed. If you can't really remember it, it really isn't worth dwelling on. Just put it down to experience and be a little more careful with the drinking next time to avoid things like this.
If you are worried that you had sex with this woman, it might be wise to have a test for STD's, just to be on the safe side.
You'll be find, with time. Just be careful from now on :) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiona quik follow up: I got heavily drunk again, but this time i got into big trouble by talking utter BS... I dont know how to live anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Was the woman attractive for her age? Would she be considered a MILF by your standards?
If yes. Then stop complaining. Take pride in the fact you bedded a hot older woman, this is not something to be ashamed of, it is something to brag about.
If she was quite un-attractive then just be thankful you don't remember it.
Flynn 24
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (18 January 2010):
You obviously had some kind of black out. There is not much you can do to change what happened but you can take control of your drinking from now on to prevent this from happening. This is dangerous self-destructive behaviour. I think you should ne grateful that it was a woman at all. Also be thankful tyt you didn't end up raped/sodomised in a ditch somewhere. If you really want to find out how it all happened then ask the woman. Or at least ask your friends as I'm sure they witnessed how you got with this woman.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
What has happened has happened. You can't make it go away. All you can do is make sure that you never drink to much again that you put yourself in a position where you wander off with someone. Just focus on yourself, make sure you're still going out, and you'll get over it.
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