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Why do I treat him like this?

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Question - (18 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

what is wrong with me? theres this guy i lile and i am often very mean to him. he likes me too were friends. i always treat other guys nicely, flirt with other guys, dance with other guys even though im not doing anything serious after with them.the guy i like he was there first idk wat it is. the guy i like will always be around and see how i act towards them. i dont mean to do it but it just happens. ive also seen him with other girls but he always ends up bugging me staring at me.

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A female reader, Frenzotic United Kingdom +, writes (19 January 2010):

Frenzotic agony auntI think both you guys are waiting for something to happen; for one of you guys to make the first move.

Maybe you or even both of you are subconsciously frustrated by all this waiting so that you guys flirt/dance with other guys/girls to get each other to notice.

Now is the time to make your feelings known or risk the other thinking "you know what, I like him/her but nothing has happened, I don't think at this rate anything will ever happen so I might as well not try anymore"

You'll regret not knowing if there was anything spectacular there. Go for it! =]

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