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writes:My bf broke up with me, then went out and had sex with a bunch of random girls, and now he wants me back after 2 weeks of being broken up for. Why would he do this? He says he realises it was all a mistake and that he didnt appreciate what he had and took me for granted. He says that he realises what hewants now in life. He said that the moment he said he wanted to break up, he regretted it but had too much "pride" to take it back straight away. So he goes out and sleeps around....why? I dont understnad. He says he was thinking about me all the time.I understand we were broken up and he was free to do whatever he wants. But for him to say the whole time he wanted me back, yet he still managed to have sex with all these other girls, how does that work? I feel betrayed because while I was at home, bawling my eyes out for 2 weeks, missing him, he was out in town geting drunk and sleeping with heaps of girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): if i was you i wouldnt take him back as he will most likely do it again to you and hurt you all over again and yet i am one of those girls that always gives people a second chance but i still wouldnt give him a second chance after all that. hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): I think hes lying to you and he enjoyed having his freedom for a few weeks and sleeping around. But he found out quite fast....as some do, that the grass isnt always greener on the other side. Dont drive yourself potty trying to understand what he means when he says he wanted you and only thought of you. Thats a load of old rubbish. If he had thought that much about you, he would have been at your door on his knees begging you to forgive him. But he wasnt, he was out painting the town red, sleeping with girls and thinking.........Hmm! This isnt as exciting as i thought it would be! I think i might have been hasty, ditching my girlfriend like that. But he cant really tell you that though, because you would kick him to the kerb! Hence the nonsense hes spouting from the Book Of Boll*cks.
Dont try and understand it because you wont. Hes talking rubbish.
Why did he break up with you? Was it over long term issues and you could understand the break up. Or was it sudden and unexpected? If long term issues and you want to try again, go for it and the best of luck. If the break up was sudden it might be that he just looked at other girls and felt he wanted freedom to pursue them. If thats the case, think yourself lucky hes gone and dont give him the time of day. All the best x
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Wow your boyfriend/exboyfriend whoever he is, is a real jerk. He went out to bang other chicks for 2-weeks and now realizes that you're the one? Hahahaha, what an idiot!
So in other words, if you decide to take him back he will now know that when he gets the urge to have sex with other girls he'll just break up with you for a couple weeks and "realize" what a big mistake it was and come crawling back.
It's up to you whatever you decide, I don't really know what you're asking besides why he slept with other girls. The answer would be: because he wanted to. He doesn't have any respect for you (well I guess he had enough to break up with you for 2-weeks so that technically it was "okay" for him to sleep with other girls) and he's a selfish jerkoff. I hope you don't take him back, or you can take him back once you realize he's right for you after you go have sex with an army of men or something...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Leave him out of your life. Clearly he has no respect for you at all. He just wanted to go out and have sex with a load of women, then come back to you. You can do better.
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reader, Ganymedes +, writes (18 January 2010):
If your boyfriend didn't have much experience with other girls, maybe he lacked sufficient frame of reference to be sure of the way he feels about you. Maybe he just needed to see for himself that the grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. If you truly love him, then give him another chance. However, you must also assert the fact that he can't do this again, or it will mean the end of the relationship for good. He must make his choice and stick by it, otherwise there is no relationship.
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