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writes:This morning my husband left for a business trip. He forgot to close out a hidden folder on our computer. I have never seen this folder. It was like I entered into a shrine of women...from porn, pics of famous women, to random naked girls... Tons of random pics of women he's taken in public. It really freaked me out. I'm not sure what to think??? I told one friend and she freaked out telling me that it was a characteristic of a rapist or serial killer - mainly the pics he's taken of random women in public. I don't know what to do. I'm honestly kind of scared. It's like I found this hidden piece of him I never knew. Just would like to know others opinions...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2010): Its no Big deal,Maybe its his hobby...U know him better.......Just by seeing those pics is not right to think that he is a RAPIST.All guys like to look at women naked pictures even the most innocent person..So
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 January 2010):
You don't' know him, that's the problem. His excuse sounds really weak to me. People seldom do something just to see if they can get away with it. He has a lot of work to do, and if in means counselling, it means counselling. Take your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis morning he said the reason why he took the photos is to see if he could get away with it. He never talked to these women, stalked these women or made any contact with them. It was just photos - he said it was stupid - he won't do it anymore.
I told him I was ready to change the locks when he came back or maybe we just wouldn't be here. My trust for him is gone and I'm completely creeped out.
He is not violent or controlling in any way. I really don't see him ever hurting anyone...but then I guess those are the ones that are hiding these sometimes...I dunno. I feel like I don't know him at all now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): i would be shit scared to.
what do you know of him exactly. seems like the man sleeping in your bed is a total stranger.
please be careful. don't want to alarm you but this one is not to be trusted.......oh, and watch his lies and cover ups - freaky, pervereted, stalking.......what is his next move. interested to note whether any of the women has come up as having disappeared, raped, murdered, the list is endless. does he ever approach /has approached them. does he stalk them for affairs, random sexual acts.
i know my thoughts are running away here, but look realistically why he has these tons of everyday women on his computer. and you can be sure that he will try to delete any evidence on the computers/ or store it safely and secretly away from you. just too creepy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just confronted him on the phone. I think he was shocked that I've seen it all. He said it was something he did before we were married (we've been married for 2 yrs, together 3). I told him that I've seen some he's taken while we've been married. He didn't say anything. He has some explaining to do when he returns.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just confronted him on the phone. I think he was shocked that I've seen it all. He said it was something he did before we were married (we've been married for 2 yrs, together 3). I told him that I've seen some he's taken while we've been married. He didn't say anything. He has some explaining to do when he returns.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 Have you confronted him about this?
It sounds pervy and creepy to me. hey, Caring Guy is right, there is a similar question on here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe took the pictures.
He went to a pro football game and along with taking pics of the cheerleaders (I'm ok with that) he took random pics of women in the crowd. Close ups - walking up and down the aisle...
Lots of this on the computer. Women coming out of the grocery store, pumping gas and so on...
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 Yeah, that sounds a little freaky...
But, there are porn sites that specialize one public pics...are you sure HE took those pictures? They could just be porn from one of those sites...
If they DO turn out to be taken by him...then YES, I would be freaked out! But you shouldn't act too freaked if you talk to/confront him about it! Try to hear him out...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2010):
That is a bit weird. This is like a peeping Tom. (just answered another question like this). I can understand the porn and such, but not the random girls that he has seen in public. I think you have to sit down with him and have a serious talk.
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