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writes:what if you're you been a girl with a year now, and she thought she could be slick and have a side relationship with a another guy, but when you caught her and even gave her sure proof, she denies it. even when u have proof of them flirting and she sayin romantic things about him on her myspace and twitter page. plus she though i had no access her pages. so being that i even show her all this, she's still in denial. what i want to know is, she doing this because she still wants to save the relationship and put this all behind us because she really wants this to work or is she crazy and just doesnt want to make it seem like she never did and anything wrong in this relationship, like having a clean-slate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): When you know someone committed a murder then you act accordingly. You don't refrain from hanging an obviously guilty murderer just because they plead innocent all the way up the steps of the gallows.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Proof is more for you to know so you can end it with her.
If she wanted to stay with you she would admit it and be honest.
Even if she did want to stay with you why would you? She's obviously liar and cheater. I'm sorry to say but people like this hardly ever change. It's possible, but if it were possible for her she would admit it.
Get out and find someone worth your time/effort
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 I think she is just trying to see if you will give up and she can continue on the same way she has been. In my opinion she's not worth it and you should end it before she tries to turn this on you. If you do want to work this out with her then I hope she comes clean. If she still wanted to be with you she would have admitted it and you two could have started rebuilding the relationship. Denial is not a good sign when you clearly know that there is at least emotional cheating going on.
Good luck to you for what you decide to do with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): It is simple. She likes you, but not enough to be faithful to you. She will keep you around as long as you allow it. I say get out of this, because you are just being lied to and used.
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