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*sabey
writes:sorry in advance for all of the spelnng mistaks, im in a hurry :Pso me and this guy have been friends for around a year, but we barley saw eachother.just recently, we have started hanging out together again, but his little sister and my little brother have been with us to.a couple of nights ago we were at the park and our younger siblings were on the swings, so we were playing truth or dare on the other side of the park! he was asking me a bunch of stuff aboute myself cuz i kept choosing truth. once, he asked me if i still had my virginity. i said that i did and he said he did too. after that we left our sibling at the park and walked down to the new school. we were flirting a bit and playing pass with a soccer ball that we found.that nght when i went home i realised how much i loved him. because i kept thining aboute him and his gorgeous smile. then i dreamed aboute him when i fell asleep- in the dream we were a couple and he always had an armaround me. ALWAYS!and we were holding hands. i fellinto a little snowbank and he came and lyed down beside me, really closeand again, put his arm around me.- then my brother came and woke me up :( the next night i dreamed aboute him again. i have dreamed aboute him every night since and in all of them we were a couple, madley in love,he is such a gentilman around me, walking me home, helping me up. he also trys to make a good impresion on my dad when ever he is over as i said, he is a gentilman. unless his other friends are around, then he is still really nice but his friends are really rude so he has to go along with them, well he dosen't have tobut they actually force him to, and then when thay leave he appoligised like 10 times in a row. he is completly open with me but im arede to tell him that i like him because i have low cinfidence that he will rejectme, he always says that it would be soooo cool th be in a relationship with a girl from another school.
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reader, isabey +, writes (22 January 2010):
isabey is verified as being by the original poster of the question i posted a follow up to this question at this link:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/update-help--i-really-like-my-guy.html
i hope this helps you help me!
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (19 January 2010):
 It sounds to me like he's giving in to peer pressure.
Life is hard because at some point we all have to choose between what is right, and what is easy. Unfortunately it seems that he's choosing to do what is easy... sometimes it's hard to stand up for what's right, but there is no excuse for choosing the easy way.
What I mean to ask was, does he simply feel pressured and want to be accepted by this clique, and that's why he goes along? Or do they physically threaten him?
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reader, isabey +, writes (18 January 2010):
isabey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSirenaBlusera, you asked:
How do they force him? He needs to stand up to them.
you can tell by the look in his friends eyes that they will do something to him, back at school if he doesn't go along with what they are doing.
and you also asked:
What kinds of things do his friends "force" him to do?
he is the niceest one in their 'clique', by far!
i have seen how he acts around other people
(not just around me) when his friends are around and when they aren't. trust me, he is alote nicer when they are not around.
his friends force him to bully younger kids.
example: once they made him ask my little brother and his friends if they were guys or girls.
they also made him ask me ( i am a year younger than him) if i was a hermaphrodite.
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reader, The Best Boyfriend :)  +, writes (18 January 2010):
hmmm, well the fact that he asked you a bunch of questions that night, i think he's really interested with you (i dunno about the question about your virginity?) Maybe you should get to know him well first.
Don't be afraid, rather try to ask him if he likes you too.. :)
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reader, The Best Boyfriend :) +, writes (18 January 2010):
hmmm, well the fact that he asked you a bunch of questions that night, i think he's really interested with you (i dunno about the question about your virginity?) Maybe you should get to know him well first.
Don't be afraid, rather try to ask him if he likes you too.. :)
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reader, isabey +, writes (18 January 2010):
isabey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso, today he came over,and we played his ps3.(he brought it over) after that, his sister wanted to play so we let her and we went on the computer.
we were playing hegehog launcher, and he keept looking over at me (like every 25 seconds) until he caught me looking back, he kept looking at my lips too, and again, like at the park, he kept trying to get his sister and my brother to go upstairs.
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reader, SirenaBlusera +, writes (18 January 2010):
unless his other friends are around, then he is still really nice but his friends are really rude so he has to go along with them, well he dosen't have tobut they actually force him to
Sounds like someone is giving into peer pressure! What kinds of things do his friends "force" him to do?
How do they force him? He needs to stand up to them.
As for liking him, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
The only way to find out if he likes you back is to ask him. This is walking a fine line, because many guys are really terrible at taking hints (no offense, guys). On the other hand, you could scare him off if you come on too strong. You should be sincere. Just ask him if you think you could be more than friends. Or, invite him on a date. This is the 21st century, it's okay to ask a guy out. :)
If he's truly your friend, then I feel he'll stand by you, even if he doesn't like you back. I hope that things work out for you. If they don't, thought, at least you'll have his friendship to cherish. He sounds like a good friend, for the most part.
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