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writes: This girl I've known for a while just wrote me an email calling me a jerk and an asshole for teasing her, telling me she recently had a one-night stand for the first time ever, calling me a cutesy pet name, asking me like five questions about what's going on in my life and asking me to go to breakfast. The one-night stand thing has thrown me for a loop. Is she into me or am i just her friend?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): yes well, she sounds crazy. but chances are, she probably was just nervous/wanted to make you jealous.
i would say just go out for breakfast and see how she acts then.
i know that i have without a doubt acted the opposite of how i felt, so dont always take things at face value at first.
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reader, squeezeybear  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Sadly this sounds like a tactic I shamelessly have used myself; shes trying to make you jealous. Firstly, when she calls you a jerk and an asshole - she loves the attention when you tease her, shes highlighting what I assume was some small issue because she wants you to do it again, all attentions good attention. When she tells you about her one night stand she is trying to make you jealous, or at least trying to find out if you get jealous. In girl land seeing is a guy gets jealous over you being with someone else is testing if he fancies you, I know its weird. Next, the questions are so you have to email her back. And as for breakfast, thats just because she wants to see you.I know us girls are horribly confusing but just roll with it. Give her the attention she wants, but nice attention not just teasing, it'll surprise her and make her like you more. Dismiss claims of a one night stand, I'm not saying shes lying but it could be the case its a little while lie to 'test the waters' of your relationship. Answer her questions and ask questions yourself, and when she answers them, because she will, try and act interested. And whether you go to breakfast or not is your choice, I myself are not an evening person. Good luck!
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