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Was it a heat of the moment thing my wife said?

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Question - (18 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Help me out, what exactly does my wife mean? We have included porn (not all the time) in our sex life. We watch it together, never apart and typically it varies as to the content.

Lately my wife has been wanting to see more gangbang scenes, more MMF scenes, etc. She is not really turned on by facials and things like that but she also has shown interest in bukkakes and facials in gang bangs.

We've never had anal sex either, but she threw me off the other night when she saw a scene where a girl was being double penetrated vaginal-anal pretty roughly by two black men. When she saw this she says "I want that!" I was like "Really?" You don't even want anal sex, now you want to be pounded anally?

So was it a heat of the moment thing or what?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

Fantasy..... same for women as men.

Doesn't equate with reality. Did you ask her right then if she was serious or not ?? "You don't even want anal sex, now you want to be pounded anally?"

You killed the fantasy and don't know if she was serious or not.

(I'm betting it was just fantasy on her part)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

Id ease up on the porn for a while and let her cool down. Pandoras Box and all that! Bring more romance into the relationship and less pounding x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

While I am turned on I think of trying different things, but after I have an orgasm, I'm always like "Thank God I didn't do those things I was thinking about, that would have been really stupid".

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 January 2010):

A lot of people think and say things whilst watching porn that they don't' mean later. I wouldn't worry about it, it's just a fantasy.

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A female reader, Angzw Zimbabwe +, writes (18 January 2010):

Not all porn fantasies need to be acted on. Some scenes are only for the porn industry. Many of these actors dont even do the stuff they act out in their normal relationships. I wouldn't worry about it.

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