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Relationship going stale...

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Question - (18 January 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi

I am frightened that my relationship has gone stale. we have been together just over a year and i feel as though he is fed up of me. i try to talk to him about it but the truth is i dont know where my insecurities are coming from. i cant give him good enough reasons for feeling like this.

I am also quite fed up myself, not of my boyfirend, I love him so much but we're stuck in a routine. all we do is work, come home and eat and then watch tv every night. we dont talk much anymore either. we're only young... we should be going out and enjoying life but we're not and he's not willing to change that....the fact that we have no money has something to do with that though.

I'm starting to think we want different things as well. i want to travel the world but he seems happy where he is. i've asked him about a holiday this year nd at first he seemed up for it but now every time i mention it he shrugs it off.

if i ask him if he's ok he just says yes and nothing else. but he hasnt been the same since he moved house. I really believe theres something wrong with him but i cant figure it out and he's not prepared to talk.

sorry its so long... theres miles more but wont bore you all... any advice whatsoever would be appreciated... if any of that makes sense

thanks

x

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