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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:well my Bf is a jerk, we've been together for more than year and a half. he keep lying and he does a lot of internet dating. I went on holiday for XMas and came back on the 4th, when i came back he aid we will make a fresh start and he gonna stop. I believed him, and today smt went through my head and thought let me just check his laptop, and i saw he created a new hotmail account so that i dnt know he is still doing it. I don't understand, he says he has the best relationship with me, that he ha the best sex of his life. then why would sm1 do that. I am so in love with him i just get over him.I tried many times before. How much he hurt me i will always be here waiting for him to come back and he will eventually come back. I really wish i could walk away for good. I hurt me really bad. Sometimes he doesnt even see me, when i am around, i have to force myself on him. but he never stop saying he loves me.please advice me. Help me. Tell me where can i find professional help if required.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): The fact that he keeps saying he loves you, keeps you hanging on. But he cant really love you, can he? Would you behave as he does if you really loved someone? Besides him saying those 3 little words, what keeps you chasing him? If i were you, i would go and have some counselling, try your doctors or look for local counselling services in your area. Alot will provide counselling for an hourly donation thats agreed by you and them. It neednt be expensive. Try and find out what it is about you, that makes you feel you are only worthy of this kind of relationship. Once you have figured that out i think you will find it easier to make the break x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 January 2010):
Yes you can leave him. You're not leaving him, because your own esteem is low and you're clinging into the first person that shows you any affection. Dump him, cut all contact with him, delete numbers and focus on your own life and dreams. He doesn't love you, he's lying about that. He's just using you because you're letting him. I think you need to look at your own life. You live in the UK, so you should be able to find counselling. Ask your doctor about it. But really focus on yourself and your esteem, because only someone who feels that bad about themselves would stay with a guy like this.
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