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Should I read into these comments on Facebook?

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Question - (18 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife is a different cultural background.

Would you get upset if you saw on a public networking site two of her clients at work making sexually suggestive comments about her? Nor directly at her, nor were they crude.

The convo went like this:

One of them took a test asking what type of liquor were you, to which the answer was of the culture that my wife is from. So in the message part of the post he wrote 'Must be the _________ on me." Misspelling in with on.

Well one of the other patrons, writes him back 'You wish!'

He responds 'I wish?'

the other guy responds 'You wish you had the little ________ ON you.'

Do you take anything from this or read into it so long as they keep their comments to themselves?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 January 2010):

I think this is just male banter to be honest, and I don't think it's anything worry about.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (18 January 2010):

The Realist agony auntIt is a public site and if they are not making comments directly to your wife I would bother with them. Talk to your wife about it and see what she says. You can also report them on to the facebook staff and they will look into it since any sort of racial comments are not tollerated. Its not worth it to get mad over it especially if your wife is letting it go but I would report them just so its not so public.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010):

I dont think you should be worried. It sounds like just harmless guy talk to me, just picking on the guy who took the test. The two guys were probably just picking on him for the mispelling and having a fun little joke - as innapropriate as it was. Relax, Im sure you have nothing to worry about, angel x

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