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writes:I have been friends with a guy for nearly a year and the past 3 months we've gotten closer.My ex(dated for 5 years broken up for the past year) decides to call and tell me all the things that I've ever wanted to hear him say and is aking me to give him another chance. Should I give in? I was so careful with taking things slow with this current guy and he's been very respectful and patient with me. I don't know what to do = My ex is aware that I am currently talking to somebody and aware I need time to think things over. Should I discuss this with the current guy I'm dating?? Please, any advice is appreciated.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Your ex is doing this because you're seeing someone new. If you went back to your ex, he'd only end up dumping you again. Face it, he's your ex for a good reason. It wasn't working. The best thing you can do is tell him it's over, cut all contact and focus on the new guy who really has had a lot of respect and care for you. The new guy is the better bet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2010): Maybe your ex found out you were seeing someone and that's why he did all this.
You know your ex's personality better than us. Is he the type of guy that will change? Or has he promised you things before and not kept his word?
He's your ex for a reason. This new guy hasn't done anything wrong yet...either way please decide quickly as it's not fair to this new guy to keep him hanging on a rope...
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