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30-35,
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writes:I have a really big problem,I like this girl that i've known since grade 9. (I am 17)She is my closest friend, someone I can trust no matter what and I have gone over in the middle of the night upset just to speak to her. I adore this girl so much, i'm scared to make it anything more.Thing is, she does NOT like me in this way, and it drives me nuts. It seems that no matter what I do, my attempts are crushed by guys with 6-packs and pot head arse holes. She dated a guy that cheated on her and she still loves him and wants him back.Is there any way I could make her fall in love with me? even though thats wrong? Or should I ignore this feelings inside my chest and just be her friend.M
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reader, AuntieGeorgia  +, writes (18 January 2010):
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First of all I'd say you cant make someone fall in love with you, but you can show her what a lovely, kind person you are then maybe she'll realise that you are better suited to her than boys who will cheat on her.
I Would suggest that you tell her about your feeling however dont put any pressure on her and dont get your hope up that she'll reply "I love you too" as this may not be the case.
But always remember Its better to be friends with this girl than not in her life at all.
Hopefully she will share the same feelings!
good luck x
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