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*eskimaCerita
writes:Okay, so I've known this guy for about seven years, but we've never really known each other properly. Like, we've acknowledged eachother, and I guess we're friends, but we've never been close.Now recently, I've started to develop feelings for him. Now, I'm not bragging, but I do tend to get the guys that I like, but my feelings for this guy go way deeper and for once I don't feel like I have nothing to lose. I have no idea as for how to go about flirting with him and talking to him. I'm wondering also whether we've known eachother for too long?Thanks for any comments on the matter. Much appreciated :)
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reader, HeskimaCerita +, writes (19 January 2010):
HeskimaCerita is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help!
I'm doing a concert with my band on the 30th, and he has just joined the rival band of ours, which I'm not sure whether is a good thing. I've invited him to a Valentine's Day party of mine, and told him not to bring a girl with him. I don't know whether he gets the message yet, I will keep you updated :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 January 2010):
Go for it. It's better to know how he feels that you can have closure, than never know how he feels.
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reader, 'Janey' +, writes (18 January 2010):
 hey try it and see what happens, you cant help your feelings and you cant help who you fall for :) its not been too long .... if it doesnt work you two can still be friends x
but its your decision, do whats best for you and dont hurt yourself!
Good Luck!!
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reader, Blod +, writes (18 January 2010):
 I don't see why you shouldn't go for it. I don't think it makes a difference how long you've known someone. Some people know each other for a day before going out while others get together 10 years or so after first meeting. So it shouldn't matter.
I think you should tell him how you feel. You're confident enough and he might also like you. So go for it!
Good Luck
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reader, HeskimaCerita +, writes (18 January 2010):
HeskimaCerita is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I am trying to get to know him better, but I feel sometimes like I am wrong to flirt with him, like I respect him too much. I want to start a relationship, though, and to flirt is the only way I know how. Thank you, though :)
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reader, AuntieGeorgia +, writes (18 January 2010):
 Ok ...
I suggest that you just tell him about your feelings and see what he says.
Or you could try and become better friends with this guy then as you get closer and you feel like you trust one another you can tell him, then atleast if he turns you down you can still be friends with him.
But you should just do what feels right to you.
I hope I helped
Good Luck x
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