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anonymous
writes: Me and my wife have been married for a year and four months. recently she's been accusing me of cheating all the time. i can't have no girl friends because she calls them and tell them a set of lies. her friend was going away and invited her to club Friday night without my consent she couldn't make it so they planned Saturday night. so i went to find out what was going on and i could not find my wife. 2AM in the morining i caught her with her Ex boyfriend trying to get transportation to go home. i knew she was drinking becasue i smelled it there was another high scent like a condoms. she told me nothing have happened but went out from 8:00pm to 2:00 am.Should i get divorced or not? What would you have done?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): first check if she really is sleeping with her ex. IF yes devorce is what i say if u dont have kids ofcaurse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): if your wife wants to go out she should be able to. if she wants to drink she should be able to. if you want a wife who does not want to do these things, find another wife. if you love someone, love them for what they are instead of trying to make them change. it sounds as though there is no trust in this marriage for either of you. either learn how to trust each other or go your separate ways or else this marriage will not be a happy contented one.
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