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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: How can I squash the insecure, jealousy bug and be done with it? I have always been insecure and jealous about my husbands ex girlfriends. If my husband or anyone starts to talk about one of them I immediately get hurt and annoyed. Then I'll stay like that for the rest of the day. It doesn't help that about a year ago I snooped on my husbands computer which is normally locked by a password and found pictures of his exes. He had copied them off their facebooks, some were provocative and some not. I asked about them and he said that sometimes he thinks about sexual experiences he had with them when he is pleasuring himself, and seeing the pictures help. That really hurt, because we have a good sex life. I am open to anything, except threesomes. He says that it's common for guys to do this and that I need to stop being insecure about it. But I don't know how to stop. It seems like something always triggers the feelings. I would like to hear some advice on how to put these unhealthy emotions behind me, for good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): i would suggest you get another bf, one who respects u and cherishes u. good luck.
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