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writes:I don't understand why I am so worried about being hurt or unable to love a girl. I just don't feel anything for any girl, just physical attraction nothing more, I went through a break up which left me confused of who I am, what I want and everything else. I have gotten back on my feet mostly when it comes to my life i think. I am just going out and having fun, doing the stuff that I wanted to do, but really I can't find what I am looking for. People keep thinking I am hung up on my ex and that is why I have not 'moved on', which is kinda getting annoying. People keep telling me I am a great catch and that I am a great guy (all the time) which has gotten annoying and really does not make me want to go get a girlfriend any faster. What can I do to make myself open my heart up to a girl? What can I do to remove the fear of getting hurt all over again? Is there really anything more I can do?
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reader, advisorX  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 You dont have to do anything... Theres nothing wrong if you dont have a girlfriend at the present. Maybe the reason is you are trying to find the perfect girl for you and i dont see anything wrong with it rather than to push yourself to any girl just for the sake of having a girlfriend. You may have a girlfriend but what if youre not happy with her? will you just dump her because you realized all of a sudden that shes not the one? I dont think that will be a good idea. If you are happy being alone so be it. Nevermind what your friends will tell you about having no girlfriend at all, Because you will find true love at the unexpected place and time.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 You are very young, you haven't met the right person yet. Take time, you'll meet a lot of women before you die, and one of them will steal your heart. Stop worrying, date and just have fun.
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