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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy since the last ten months..I'm absolutely blissfully happy with him, and I get along excellently with all his friends. The only problem is that his ex is part of his friend circle. He broke up with her because she was too pushy and he couldn't handle her temper tantrums and the disrespect that came along with her personality..but otherwise she's a nice person..Even I ont have a problem with her. But sometimes I do feel some cold vibes from her side when all of us are hanging out together. Some snide comments or passing derogatory remarks about me, or eye-rolling or that kind of thing keeps happening when I do or say something. Once when she was drunk she even told me that she still attracted to my boyfriend (her ex). I spoke to my boyfriend about this and he's completely over her and is very practical about this. But I dont want to create an enemy for myself in his friend circle because I love all of them dearly an I want to be friends with his ex too..How should I approach this problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): He is being honest with you when he says he is over her. You will only push him away with your insecurity. Now that he knows that you don't like it, he will probably avoid alone time with her. Making rules for people only makes them want to break them more. Maybe you should try flirting with other guys in front of him to see how he likes it.
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