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writes: Now to all of you who know my gf insecutities I have another question about it now here's the problem she recently searched up on google for my name then my name came up under some girls myspace and now she thinks I am cheating because the google link says on the comment "I love you night" now I remember I never did any of this and because of her expression made me look like I was guilty so now I have no idea what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI checked it my self and this person is not me but she refuses to believe that its not me and just says oh you just changed your profile or something like that
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reader, Illithid +, writes (8 December 2010):
Unless you have an EXCEPTIONALLY rare name, there's likely to be someone else out there with the same first and last name that you have (I know I do, and my last name is pretty rare), so it absolutely could be someone else. If she's paranoid though, then it's a choice for you to make: Either deal with her fears with patience and compassion, helping her to grow to trust you and forgiving her for occasional accusations, or decide she's not worth being on the defensive and find someone else.
Personally, I'd advise trying to ask her to trust you for now, if you can.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (8 December 2010):
You finally buck up and dump your girlfriend because she's not going to get any better. Or you learn to live with her insecurities, because you don't want to dump her.
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