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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend of a year just randomly quit his job 3 weeks ago. Yeah he hated it, but it made GOOD money. Ever since then things havent been the same. We fight all the time, he never hardly txts me anymore, i always have to be first now. I dont know what to do. He is all depressed, says he loves me but never acts like it. What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): It seems like something has happened? Are you involved with his family or work collected because you could ask them?
Maybe try and drop it, just for a day, plan something special and make him feel happy and hopefully he will come around. That could also backfire I guess as he could start to take you forgranted.
It's always hard to continue being nice to someone who takes there problems out on you. You know him best here so would space be good for him? Or a helping hug and nice night in?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Communication is key. Tell him your concerns, fears, etc.. And see if he is willing to reassure you. If he is depressed, see if you guys can get him through it somehow, but remember be his support. Love and nurture him, and don't be a nag
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