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writes:Last semester, I met this guy and we started hanging out and going to parties together. I really liked him, and he was such a nice guy. I thought it was going somewhere, but things I guess got awkward, and nothing happened. I was really bummed, and whenever I see him now, I get that flipping feeling in my stomach. We've stopped talking, and I've moved on (or so I thought...). Last weekend my friends and I were at a party, and this was guy there. He started talking to one of my friends, they danced, exchanged numbers. She asked me how I knew him and what had happened, so I told her. But I think they still hit it off. And I'm almost positive they went to dinner tonight, and that they are going to continue to talk and hang out..because they are both the kind of people to be friendly and stay in contact, which means him coming over here (because she lives in the room next to me). What am I supposed to do and how and I supposed to deal with this?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Burn. You don't know if they hit it off for sure. Just because it fizzled with you, doesn't mean it's going to be sparks for her. If it is, so what? Good for them. But you and I know that college is full of eligible, educated guys...it's not going to last that long. You'll meet new guys in your French class, at white trash bashes, bars on the strip, through friends, etc.
Since your friend may have him now, we're not sure, then it's really time to move on. If they do get together, hang out with her less, make new friends, and find a new guy that gives you that flipping feeling in your stomach.
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