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male
age
30-35,
*ariush
writes:Hello.For the last year or two I attended badminton training during summer break. In my first year there, I met a girl who seemed to connect pretty well with me. Then life happened, and I wasn't able to see her until around September of this year. Our training is every Saturday for an hour and a half. Before the training I normally try and talk to her, but her brother is always there with her. This is a problem for me in two ways. Firstly, now I cannot casually ask her out because I will need to ask her if we can be alone first, which is not really casual. Secondly, I can't talk to her after training because normally her parents come by and it is too late by then. So my question to you is this: what should I do to make the brother go away so that I could casually ask the girl out? Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Next time you get a chance to approach her just ask her nicely if you two could talk alone for a little bit because there is something that you want to ask her. That way while you two walk somewhere the excitement can build withtin her and it will make even better. I am assuming that you beleive her to be interested and single, it would just suck if she wasn't into you.
If the brother won't leave make it clear that there is really something that she should only hear and she sould get rid of him. You don't want to show anger towards the brother.
It may also help if you take her by the hand when you two go off somewhere.
Hope all works out for you.
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