I like my girlfriend's sister

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have a church mate, my co-member in the music ministry for about 3 years. We seems to have physical and personality attraction i guess. We have a good team up and one time her sister is teasing me to her. her sister even call's me up as a brother in law and i would say i really liked it. I was studying and plans to pursue my Co-Music member after graduation. I've been exchanging SMS with the sister for almost year, she asked what i like and what her sister like and tells me that we are a good match. come a day that sister informed that My Co-Music member already had a boyfriend and they are together for over year. I was confused, cause I'm having good responses from my Co-Music member whenever i talk, joke and describe, appreciate her like she don't have any boyfriend, not (being not known to anyone except to their family). The cut the story short, after about a month, i had a girlfriend which is my co-music member's sister. My co-music member is walking cold to me since. And, I having some confusion. I feel like confused, looking for my lost opportunity and the change of situation with the teaser and the being teased. I can't talked to My-music member that way we were before that i truly miss. Need some piece of advise. Thanks.

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