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writes: my question is to get the discussion started about this my question is has anybody had a girl friend who disreguards cuts you short when you start to talk says honey dont ask that thinks your untrained e.t.cdireguards your funny statements and rolls her eyes but she does laugh when you say something that is intelligent she disreguards it and things i say and thinks im sipleminded and tells me to forget about it and change the subject am i really that embarassing or does she really think im stupid and her love toy boy. i have come across this personality problem? in my friends girlfriends. Reply to this Question
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reader, Serpico +, writes (7 December 2010):
If you stay there for another minute you're a fool. Actions like this will tend only to get worse with time as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Hey, she sounds a bit like my ex-wife! Note the use of "ex".
Joking aside, this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship, and respect is a fundamental ingredient of one. You're obviously not too happy with her behaviour, and - unless her behaviour is a cry for action - she can't be really in love with you either.
Have you ever mentioned that her attitude is bothering you? She may just be trying to provoke a reaction or test your worthiness...
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Respect is pretty easy to gain, but once you've lost it... its a massive battle to win back. I'd have a serious talk with her, turn off the TV/radio, sit down at a table together... really let her know that you're not F***ing around. She may not entirely grasp just how badly she's been treating you... she needs to know...
If she doesn't respect what you have to say at this point, ya gotta ask yourself, "will she ever?"
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (7 December 2010):
It's called a lack of respect... Hard to be equals in a relationship without it if you ask me.
If it was me... I dunno, I think after 10 eye-rolls I'd be showing her the door...
But then again, eye-rolling is a BIG pet hate of mine.
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