A
female
age
30-35,
*hmngbrd
writes:Sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel like he is dating me because he feels bad. How do you tell your boyfriend that I mean how do you know if there feelings are true? I trust him, im just insecure. I mean. Like. Okay. Lately ive told him a lot of my issues with my life, but he sometimes comes off as he is only with me because he feels bad for me!? Example. Convo. Me: I love you. Boyfriend: I love you too but dont feel like if we ever broke up you cant live with out me or something, im just saying if we broke up or I wanted a break from the relationship... Okay what the crap is that supposed to mean? were having a normal convo and he says this.... Exxample two. Me: im really busy this week babe so we wont be able to see each other till friday (said on the previous friday) boyfriend: we'll live.... What the hell does this mean you dont want to see me ? (said in my head) me: how do you feel about our relationship? Boyfriend: I love you and your awesome what about you..... me: Your the best thing that has ever happend to me and I appriciate everything you do for me. You really are one in a million hunny. Boyfriend: well... Your answer was a lot better than me.. (ACTIONS). Me: romantic thing romantic thing romantic thing boyfriend: nothing. Notta. Zip. Zelch. Do you even love me man or am I just doing all this romantic bull shit because maybe its what I want done to me. But nope dont get it in return.. WHYYYY.??? id like nice things done for me once in a while yah know.
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reader, advisorX  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 it doesnt necessarily mean that when a man talks a lot, he loves you so much. Some men really cant express what within him with so much words. a "yes" can mean "really really so much" and a "no" would mean "really never ever".
If you really want to know his feelings go and ask him. Do you love me? and watch carefully to his response. if its yes its yes.
What do you expect for him to say when you said that you wont be seeing this week til friday? do you want him to freak out?
Just be true to him and be happy with your relationship with him.If you want you can tell him what you want to do to your relationship, just be open with him.
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