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*overnotafighter
writes: Hi,I've been with this guy for 6 months now and he's been really nice to me my friends like him, he gets on with my family and he says he loves me.But lately he's been really off with me and gets angry really quickly, the slightest remark from me that he doesn't agree with and he starts to give out to me.I've never seen this side to him and his friends have seen him do this to me and they tell me that they've never seen him get angry as often as he does over the simpilest matters.I've tried to talk to him to see whats wrong with him and why he keeps getting angry but he refuses to talk to me and storms out.I love him and want to stay with him, but if he continues to get cross im afraid he might turn violent as he is acting so out of character.What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): Give him some space. If he won't talk about it and all he does is get angry and walk away. Then it's time you backed off and let him sort out his head.
Not a break or anything like that just back off a little and spend less time with him. He needs to sort this stuff out and if he won't tell you what it is then there's nothing you can do. So back off and give him some space if he doesn't come around then take a proper break or leave him.
Seriously you don't deserve to be treated like this, so you can't let him. Give him space and time to sort his head out.
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