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female
age
41-50,
*ooomin
writes:I love my fiance with all my heart, but I don't think I'm IN love with him anymore. I don't know what to do. We have been together for 2 years and live together. He is an amazing man - kind, funny, adores me, treats me well... so WHY do I feel like this? It's only the past four months or so I've felt this way.Thing is he has started to noticed (he keeps asking me if I'm going off him).I crave attention from other men and flirt with other men. I don't want sex with my boyfriend anymore.Problem is, I just don't think I have the heart to leave. He is quiet and doesn't have a lot of friends, and it would absolutely crush him. He told me just today he "I love you so much it scares me." Can people honestly get the spark back in the relationship if one person is just not feeling it? I WANT to make it work, I'd probably never find a man as good as him again. But if the chemistry has gone, what do I do??
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reader, Miamine +, writes (8 December 2010):
 You've felt this way for 4months? Has anything in your life changed? New job, loss of weight, moved house, somebody die????
Change can destabilise us. If you loved him before, that what has changed your mind this way? Has he changed? Have you met someone else who attracts you? Have any of your friends married or had children recently? Can you identify anything which may be influencing you?
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