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*melia-jaye
writes:Okay.. My boyfriend of 5months, Told me he was bi, Im not sure how to take it, im not sure what to say about it.. I may seem very selfcentred and it doesnt change him, But he's always told me about guys he's found fit and things, but now im not sure, I suppose ive just been thinking to deeply into it, like that he might like me as much.. Or if it will change our relationship.. I suppose i could of guessed it, but now he's told me he is, i cant seem to come to terms with it, thats sounds horrible and harsh, but i dont know to do or say about it.. I suppose theres not really a question as such.. Has anyone gone through something i'm going though, or even wwhat my boyfriends going through to give me and advice.. Thanks for reading. Amelia (: Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Hey there babe:] Well I think that if ypu truly loved your boyfriend you really wouldn't care. I know how shocking it is to find out that your boyfriend is bi. Well one of my guy friends I really liked he told me he was gay and wasn't into women all that much which really surprised me. But if you can't handle it then break up with him but nicely but also tell him the truth because lies really get worse and hurt worse. But if you can handle the fact he is bi then stay with the poor guy. Some people start out bi but in the end go straight but if he is dating someone like you then he could be more attracted to women but is insucure about who or what he wants to do in life. Thats why some people are bi is so that they can find out what they like before going decideing on what is best for him. So it's your choice but that is what I know. Good luck girl rock on hardcore:]
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): I had a bisexual boyfriend before. If you are secure about it, then fine. But, if you are insecure about it, then move on. I was insecure about it, I never knew if his guy "friends" were more than just friends. Also, I once heard a psychologist say that when straight women have gay relationships (unless they are truly truly a lesbian), they usually go back to men, but when "straight men" have relationships with men they usually stay gay. I don't know if that is completely true, but I believe it for the most. Good luck!
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