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reader, Mjfbla  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 When I was on birth control I bleed the whole time some people react that way. and some birth controls cause you to gain weight
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reader, jalynn93 +, writes (9 December 2010):
jalynn93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive been to both ive had a pelvic exam and they gave me some shots but cldnt draw blood so just put unable wen i tried to get checkd for stds. and im on birth control but still irregular
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Then go to a different doctor. What kind of doctor have you been seeing? Your regular doctor? You have to go to your gyno, for them to give you a blood test to see if your pregnant, then tell them about your irregular period so they can give you an exam, then place you on birth control to regulate your period.
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reader, jalynn93 +, writes (9 December 2010):
jalynn93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive been to the ddr actually just went monday and they cant seem to tell me anything they just prescribe medicine and tell me to come back in a week if it dont work i mean what else can i do thats like the 3rd time in past 2 months
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
Don't know, we're not medical professionals. As the rest of us have said, have your mother make an appointment to take you to the doctor to see what is the matter with you.
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reader, jalynn93 +, writes (9 December 2010):
jalynn93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dnt wnt a kid rite now and im a little overweight and ive always had ireegular periods ive bled like 4 months but like this past time it was 4 hours n it was light i cnt sleep on my stomach without it hurtin and me puking my abdomen hurts all the time. n m weight was back in forth for a while but then i gained 10 certain things make me puke any idea what it mite b?
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 If the last time you had sex was 6 months ago, the foetus would be approx 24 weeks and 12 inches long (about 3 times the length of a grapefruit). This may be easy to disguise if you are very overweight. But it will stick out like a sore thumb is you are of a healthy size.
When I was pregnant, I KNEW it. I didn't keep anything down for 2 months and I lost 28lbs by the time i was 11 weeks.
Although this is not the same for everyone.
I highly doubt that you are pregnant. Women who are pregnant and bleeding, experience a constant spotting because she is getting small tears in her rapidly expanding uterus. They would not get a little bleeding once a month, because there is no uterine lining to shed, they are not releasing eggs while they are pregnant.
Do you want to be pregnant? Its nothing to be ashamed of if you do.
When women desperately have the urge to be pregnant, their bodies create the symptoms of pregnancy, and if you are looking out for these signs it can be very noticeable. It is called hysterical pregnancy syndrome. Because the woman wants it so much, her body will mimic what she is subconsciously telling it to do.
(Just to let you know, I am a pregnancy and birth professional)
Those pee sticks are just about as accurate as a blood test. It measures the same thing; the level of the hormone HCG in your body. When it is above a certain amount the test will be positive. This amount should be found 2 weeks after conception.
If you do go to a doctor (which you should) he will only do a pee test to start with, if it is negative, he will not do any further tests.
Tiredness and abdominal bloating can be down to many simple things such as dehydration. But also other things like poly-cycstic-ovarian syndrome.
Good luck, let us know how you get on x
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 December 2010):
Find a Planned Parenthood around you. You can get insurance through them so everything is free. You can go on their site and ask questions. They will test you for STD and your parents will never be notified. I doubt you are pregnant...but something seems wrong so go!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): You might be putting on weight because it's cold at the moment where you live, or it could be stress from all this worrying.
If you took a test your should be fine, also I think it would be very visible if you were 6months pregnant. If I were you I'd take another test to put your mind at ease.
You may also want to get checked for stis
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): fairly sure ud no ifu were 6months pregnant! but still its best to see ur doc as since u had unprotected sex u r just as likely to hav a sexually transmitted disease.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): I think that's really odd that you had your period and still think you're pregnant, but I guess it is a possibility.. Weight gain and tiredness aren't necessarily indicators, neither is bloatedness or a full stomach, but of course have it checked out as you did have sex and unprotected nonetheless.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Have a blood test done. Most modern "pee" tests are pretty accurate but, the blood tests are more accurate.
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 was 6months ago the last time you had sex? If so you'd know if you're pregnant and have alot more symptoms. Usually tests will show within a wk of a missed period, so approx 2-6wks into a pregnancy. Doesnt sound like you are. But you'll need a blood test to confirm, not a wee test.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Hun, go to your doctor or school nurse. Yes it is possible. false negative tests are common but false positive aren't so common. Some women do experience spotting during the early stages of pregnancy. You really need to get this confirmed by a professional so you can start making decisions and so that you can start taking care of your body and the baby you might be carrying. You should be on prenatal vitamins, avoid all alcohol,caffeine, cigarettes and any drugs and of course ensure that your diet consists of healthy whole foods.
Good luck sweets..............HUGS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): I'd go back to your doctor. They might be able to do other tests or something.
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reader, jalynn93 +, writes (7 December 2010):
jalynn93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfour and one came positive n dr did two of them
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): I think you should go and see your doctor. That's the only way to be sure. Good luck.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (7 December 2010):
How many pregnancy test have you taken? Those tests are fairly accurate. I don't know I'm not a doctor, so I can't tell if you are or aren't. Go to a Planned Parenthood in your area, or any woman's clinic and request a pregnancy test, even a blood test to confirm if you are or are not pregnant.
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