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writes:ok so I met this guy about six months ago and we really liked each other so we started hangin out n getting to kno each other but after a couple weeks i started to notice that alot of times he wasnt answerin my calls or texts but i let it go i didnt care but anyways we quit talkin out of the blue..... Now six months later he shows up at my house to get my phone number and we started hanging out again we fooled around but never had sex until last weekend, he came over n it happened but rite before we did it he told me he had a girlfriend but that he wanted to break up with her he told me she was crazy n his framily didnt like her..... so then I he tells me that she stays with him...... So i tell him that he can not have his cake n eat it to..... But anyways the point is he lied to me he had a girl since we met..... he told me he was going to tell her what happened but its been over a week n i havent herd from him.... I really like him n i want to tlk to him n it makes me want him even more cuz I kno that sumone else got what I want..... I been single for over a year n im very lonely so this all happened at a bad time what should I do?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2010): What should you do? Forget him, that's what. He lied to get what he wanted, it happens everyday. Why would you want anything more to do with him after the way he's acted? You need to raise your standards.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 December 2010):
 He only told you that to get into your pants. Now that he got it hes staying with his gf. The only time ull hear from him is when he wants to hook up again
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): this guy sounds like he's got his cake and eaten it, he's got two girls dangling on his puppet strings. He wasn faithful to this girl wat makes u think he gonna b faithful to u!
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reader, Steena26  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 Hi, I know you obviously like this guy but it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, either that or he knows he wants both but he's trying to figure out how to make it happen... either way you need to leave him to it, if u ignore his calls and texts, it's gonna make him want you more but you NEED to make it clear that he can only have you if he's not with this other girl, only when he proves to you that he's free and single can he have you. My friend's recently been cheated on by her bf of 2 years and it doesn't matter what sort of relationship it is, it's horrible to go through that, so don't be the cause of that for his gf!!
also, be sure you would be able to trust this guy, if he cheated so easily on his present gf, there's no reason why he wouldn't cheat on you in the same way!
Sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear :(
Steena26 x
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 You knew that he had a gf and you still slept with him. He cheated on his girlfriend, what makes you think he'd be different with you?
Liking someone makes people stupid, I know, but you have to keep your senses as much as possible.
He used you and he doesn't deserve you. Move on and find someone worth your time.
Good Luck
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (7 December 2010):
 dont do anything honey. just put this down to experience. your not the first and wont be the last person this happens to so dont feel bad. i know what it is like to be single for a long time, it can make you put all your hope into it when you get with someone right? but sometimes you just gotta realise that the person isnt worth it. this man may just be using the 'ive got a girlfriend that i need to split up with' thing as an excuse or to buy himself a bit of time but say he DOES have a girlfriend? do you really want a relationship with someone who treats people like this? if this guy was into you he would not have left you this long without even a word. my advice? forget him. get on with your life, spend time with friends or doing what ever makes you happy,plan things that you will look forward to doing. he isnt worth your thoughts. seriously. he isnt.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (7 December 2010):
 My questions is this.... Why did you still sleep with him after knowing he had a GF?
If she and her family is so horrible why is he still with her?
Wake up, the guy is using you, sorry.
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