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writes:i Like a Girl , the girl also Like me but only one mistake is our parents don;t like to talk.when i Was 11 years old i have done such a mistake that is why she don;t like me i don;t know what is the mistake , ON 10th of December Birthday of that girl tell me how can I impress that girl i really Like she If She Will hate me and have another boyfriend so I cant live without she I will die please give me such a best solution of my Problem. bye my friend Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 You can always woo her (without overwhelming her) with a nice bouquet of flowers. Nothing too huge or crazy. It is simple and will make her feel like a million dollars.
If you don't want to come on too strong, but still want to make her feel beautiful on her special day, I'd go with flowers and a "Happy birthday!". Good luck!
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reader, Corysbaby13 +, writes (7 December 2010):
It depends on how much you wanna spend.
1.) Or get her some roses and take her to dinner and tell her how you feel.
2.) Or get her a necklace that says I love you, or her name.
3.) Or a braclet that says her name or a cute charm braclet that describes her.
4.) Or write her a poem and read it to her so it showes her you care.
5.) Or get her a t shirt from one of the name brand stores or get it customized.
I hope this helps its not much but it is things my ex boyfriends and my boyfriend has got me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): young unrequitted love is so all consuming and overwhelming. I would suggest that you do not try so hard. You do not want to frighten her. She is still young. Please just buy a nice Birthday card. And keep your words very simple. Remember everyone will read the words. You do not want to embarass her. So only 'Dear ...., best wishes for a happy birthday, from..... '
No mention of love. You cannot get yourself into trouble for what you DO NOT say. But can get into serious trouble for what they DO say.
It is too early as yet to mention the Love word. Just write a respectful wishing her happy birthday message. So much can happen in the future. Behave respectfully now and that is more
likely to impress everyone.
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reader, Princess Aunty  +, writes (7 December 2010):
It seems a tough task at first, especially if you are a little shy and introvert,but i'll gave you 8 tips which might work maybe.
so here you goes:-
1. The mantra to success here is to be your self. Remember, girls like guys who do not try to be like someone else or pretend to be over smart just to impress others. Such things can easily put off girls and could end your quest even before beginning. After all, first impression is often the last impression.
2. The key here is not even trying to think about impressing the girl when you are actually trying to do so. The reason for this being that guys often lose their originality and go out of the way when trying to impress girls and end up being labeled as mere show-offs. The best way, thus, to go about the job is to be your own self and let things happen on their own.
3. Another big mistake that guys often make is to think that girls are impressed by money. However, the truth is that if a girl is with someone because the guy has money then she is only interested in the money and not the guy. More than money and material things, what girls look for in a guy is a caring attitude, the way he talks and presents himself as well as a good sense of humour. Having these qualities can easily overshadow the lack of money.
4.Girls come across numerous men who try to impress them with all that they’ve got. But the sad part is that most end up losing their originality and are put in the same category and labeled as losers. There is a huge possibility that you too may end up in the same category unless you are different than the others.
5. Try to kick start a conversation, which in turn may and often does lead to the start of a relationship. But to be able to talk something that makes sense, you would have to be intelligent and know about various interesting things. The mantra to become knowledgeable is to read a lot and try to keep up-to-date with the events around you.
6. Another thing that most guys are usually careless about is personal hygiene. Try to dress smartly and comb your hair properly as an untidy looking person can be a put-off for anybody. Try to be a little humorous but refrain from being too outspoken as it may offend the other person.
7. Respect the girl and give her some space so that she does not feel like wanting to get out of the place quickly. A good way to break the ice is to start by asking her the time and praise her watch.
8. If you are going to a restaurant, remember that the boy is expected to pay the bill.
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