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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone. Well I'm 14 years old and I have a really complicated problem. So my ex boyfriend and I started talking again last month. But I found out he was with somone else from another school but I was still cool with it. Well one day after school me and him hung out together and it was fun being myself around him again and being in his presence also he was sad because his friend commited suiside so I figuered I could go and hang with him to make him feel better. Well it got dark outside and my ex and I went outside well I started getting really cold and he grabbed me out of no where and held me close. But also he kissed my forehead and my neck. He told me I was everything he wanted in a girl and he was so sorry about leading me on the first two times we dated. And so we went to the other side of the school where there are no cameras and we were just looking at the view of the city lights and well we went to a corner and he started really grabbing my hair sweetly and kissing my head and neck again and he said he missed being with me that I'm such a fun person to be with and then he said god your really pretty but as he said that he lifted my chin up from both of us closing our eyes and having forehead to forehead contact. Also he said I would cheat on my girlfriend from you but that wouldn't be a very good example and I agreed. He said I never deserved to be with a loser like him but I don't think he is. Me and him have like everything in common with music and both of us happening to be musicians ourselves. Then he told me god you don't know how bad I want to kiss you right now and be with you. But I we didn't which is really good but he kept kissing my head and neck alot that night. And then we decided to sit down and just look at the view some more. Well then I was sitting pretty far from him but he put his arm around my neck so I scooted closer plus i was cold to we both were. Well then as i did that he kept one of his arms around me and then put his other to where he was holding my waist and then put his head on the side of mine and kissed it. Well I asked i said do you like your girlfriend he said yea I do but then I asked if he liked me and he said I do. And he said we should get back together maybe sometime in the future and I said sure. Well just last night he broke up with his girlfriend because of the fact they never get to see or talk to eachother as much as him and I do. But he seemed really upset about it and I said you must have really liked her huh and he says to me....I loved her like I've never loved anyone in my past..that right there hurt me because I still really like him. But now I don't know if he was saying all that to me to keep me close or if he actually meant what he had said because he seemed really upset about breaking up with his girlfriend? I want to know if he was using me because he knows I still like him or if he actually meant what he had said? I want to know if he still likes me or if I'm just being dumb? He never showed up for school today and I don't know why it could be his girlfriend or he isn't feeling well but I think it's from what he has done? Please I'm a shy rock chic and I really need help on this. And you guys are my only hope on this....
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reader, truffle31 +, writes (8 December 2010):
Dear 14 year old female, I am a 22 year old male who wants to tell you that I love women more than anything else in this world. One of my goals in life is to ensure that women do not get duped by men, and that all women will be able to think for themselves and stand in solidarity.Regarding your problem, let me remind you that you are 14. Women are very vulnerable when they are 12-14 years old, as you are still growing up and have many vulnerable spots. My girlfriend lost her virginity at 14 years old to a guy who was playing around with her.Think about this, if he really loves you would he be dating another girl instead of you? Guys have many ways to convince girls and especially sweet, young, naive girls like you. Be careful with where this is going as if things do go wrong, you will be taken advantage of by this guy, and his girlfriend will hate you for being the third party.In any case, you will lose more than you will gain. I suggest that you put this out of your head, get out of this relationship and never allow an ex to manipulate you or your thoughts.
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reader, Mejersy  +, writes (8 December 2010):
 My dear,i think he's messing with your feelings and for him to say what he said in front of you,it shows he doesnt respect you anymore or didnt value your relationship.he's not worth it,just try and move on!
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