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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, I'm 17 and I broke up with my long term boyfriend about a month ago.Theres always been this guy at school, let's call him Matt, that has been interested in me even before my ex came along. At the time, I liked Matt too but then tragically his mum died and I decided he needed some space before a relationship. Then my last boyfriend asked me out and we've just broken up after 2 years together.The problem is, Matt has told all his friends how he's always loved me and he thinks now is his chance to have the perfect relationship we never had. However, I do not feel the same way. He's very fragile, has intimacy issues and is desperate to please me but I just do not find him attractive anymore. I'm worried that if he asks me out and I say noHe'll be in a very bad place and might do something stupid. I know I'll break his heart If I say no! Please help! X
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reader, help4life +, writes (7 December 2010):
Dear anonymous,
I am verry sorry for the problems you are facing at the moment. You have my depest sympathy!Have you tried talking to him? Maybe if u just find some time to sit down and have a talk with him everything will work out. If he really loves you he will respect your choices!
If you need anymore help please do not hesetate to write back! I hope it all works out!
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reader, Mejersy  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 This is a very serious situation,believe me i know what you're going through and i really dont know how to say it but the truth is stay strong and tell him how you feel because since you dont have feelings for him you might still end up hurting him which would be worse,thats what i have to say and i hope i helped!
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