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*utterfly18
writes:there's a guy that i like for almost a year and he's with me in college an i know that he likes me too i didnt really give him any attention at the begining till i noticed that he was always following me around and looking at me all the time,so i thought it's really nice that he likes me and i guess i started to fall for him but we never actually talked coz im too shy now the problem is that just few weeks ago i was sitting alone in the class and there was empty seat next to me, so he actually sat next to me and i dont know i just felt so nervous and i started to blush and of course couldnt say a single word and he seemed pretty nervous too maybe because of me and what's even worse that when the lecture was over i sat somewhere else i know it seems stupid but i felt scared and thought i'll make a fool of myself if he talked to meand im afraid that he'll think i hate him (i dont think he knows that i have a crush on him)i really like this guy and wanna talk to him but i dont know if he still likes me anymorei mean he's really the sweetest guy he's just so humble and nice and adorable and it shouldnt be that hard to talk to him especially after he approached meand i was so mean with himso if you were him would you still like a girl like that?and to be honest he seems pretty upset lately especially around me and everytime he sees me now he like gives me a mean look so does this mean it's too late to do anything or does it mean that he still cares but he's hurt maybe, i mean im really confused right now and i cant tell if still likes me or not i mean that time i stayed in the class to study and he stayed too he just sat there alone eventhough his friends were there pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase help me coz i feel like im running out of timebut im really afraid that he might turn me down if i tried to approach him
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 The only way to find out if he really likes you or not is to ask him..Instead of sitting there guessing and tossing the idea around in your head. Go up and apologize for your actions, he may have gotten the wrong impression of you. Correct him! Then ask him if he wants to study at the library, or go to Starbucks with you. I doubt he's going to reject you but you never know until you ask.
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