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writes:Hey guys im having troubles with my mom ( she a single mother aand very hardworking) so im 14 my mom has 5 kids shes in her early 40 2 of her kids and 1 of her grandaughter she has to take care there 8,9 . my mom comes home from work usually yelling cause sumfin messed up she always saying (to / about the 3 of us)that where ungreatful and nasty cause everyday we sometimes don't clean up i know she hard working and needs help but she needs to realize that where just kids and personally i am very lazy i can't help but when i do something i either get no thanks of criticed about the way i did it and im tired of she won't listen to me when i try to tell her how i feel and/or what i think what do i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): good you're already doing good job, but feeling bad when criticized don't feel bad but try to do the way your mom expects, don't worry 1 day your & everyone will praise you and your help
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 i think your mum yells at you because she is tired working and then coming home and having to do yet more work to look after you guys, cook, clean the house and make sure you have got clean clothes, food to eat, making sure you are all ok and getting to school etc. mums work hard and the job sometimes feels like the only break you get is when you are sleeping. this can make people feel stressed and sad. maybe you could take some pressure off your mum, even by doing small jobs for her. i am sure she would be pleased and feel better and if she is more relaxed she is more likely to be able to listen to you when you want to talk to her and she will be nicer to you.
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